The Role of AI in Modern Diplomacy

There is an ancient and well-kept secret to happiness that the Great Ones have known for centuries. They rarely speak of it, but they use it all the time, and it is fundamental to good mental health. This secret is called "The Fine Art of Not Being Offended."

Understanding the Secret

In order to truly master this art, one must be able to see that every statement, action, and reaction of another human being is the sum result of their total life experience to date. In other words, the majority of people in our world say and do what they do from their own set of fears, conclusions, defenses, and attempts to survive. Most of it, even when aimed directly at us, has nothing to do with us.

It's Not About You

Usually, it has more to do with all the other times, and in particular the first few times, that this person experienced a similar situation, usually when they were young. Yes, this is psychodynamic. But let’s face it, we live in a world where psychodynamics are what make the world go around.

The Role of Psychology

An individual who wishes to live successfully in the world as a spiritual person really needs to understand that psychology is as spiritual as prayer. In fact, the word psychology literally means the study of the soul.

Almost Nothing is Personal

All of that said, almost nothing is personal. Even with our closest loved ones, our beloved partners, our children, and our friends.

Conclusion

Learning "The Art of Not Being Offended" is a profound step toward a happier, more peaceful life. By understanding that most actions and words directed at us are reflections of the other person's internal world, we can remain centered and untroubled by the turbulence of others.